TANTRA: HOW TO PLEASE EACH OTHER EMOTIONALLY & SEXUALLY–Easy Sharing Cues for Chakra 5–Communication

//TANTRA: HOW TO PLEASE EACH OTHER EMOTIONALLY & SEXUALLY–Easy Sharing Cues for Chakra 5–Communication

TANTRA: HOW TO PLEASE EACH OTHER EMOTIONALLY & SEXUALLY–Easy Sharing Cues for Chakra 5–Communication

By Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS by Dr. Sasha & Janet Kira Lessin (amazon.com/Tantra-Chakras-Sasha-Alex-Lessin/dp/1548102830)

Reserve an hour of private, uninterrupted time with each of your lovers and with each take turns as Reader and as Responder. If you’re poly, it’s valuable to let your intimates witness you and for you to witness them as you and your partners respond to the cues below.

Relax, mellow out, face a partner. After you’re relaxed and comfortable, take turns as Responder and as Reader. Take each other through the cues below.

Reader, reads the cues below aloud to another partner, the Responder. Reader reads anything enclosed in square brackets [like this] silently. Where the Reader needs to respond, you’ll see this symbol ###.

Where you see asterisks (* * *), it’s the Responder’s cue to respond: give her/him a few breaths to do so. Keep your face and body neutral while you listen; don’t roll your eyes, gesture or respond–these inhibit the Responder.

READ THE CUES BELOW ALOUD TO EACH OTHER; TAKE TURNS RESPONDING

HOW CAN I PLEASE YOU DEEPLY? *** [When Responder has said a few sentences–few enough so you can remember–say the next sentence]

Wait. I hear you saying … ###. [Finish the sentence in your own words, Reader, summarize (paraphrase) what Responder’s said.]

Is that correct? *** [If your partner gives you corrections, paraphrase her and ask if you’ve got the corrections right until Responder says, “you’ve got it right”.]

Would you say more on this subject? *** [Continue paraphrasing and asking if there’s more till Responder finishes on this subject. When Responder says, “that’s all”, complete the next two sentences.]

You make sense because ### [Validate Responder. Pretend you’re s/he, seeing things from her/his perspective, Say how s/he makes sense.]

I imagine you must feel … ###. Is that what you’re feeling? ***

WHAT CAN I DO THAT TURNS YOU ON? ***

You’re saying … ###.

Is that correct? *** [If your Responder gives you corrections, paraphrase him or her and ask if you’ve got the corrections right until s/he says, “You’ve got it right”.]

Would you say more on this subject? ***

You make sense because ###

I imagine you must feel … ###. Is that what you’re feeling? ***

HOW CAN I SUPPORT YOU? *** Wait. I hear you saying … ###. Correct? *** Would you say more on this subject? *** You make sense because ###. I imagine you must feel … ###. Is that right? ***

TELL ME HOW I CAN MAKE YOU FEEL RESPECTED. ***

You’re saying …###. Is that right? *** Would you say more on this subject? *** You make sense because ###. I imagine you must feel … ###. What do you feel? ***

WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE YOU FEEL LOVED? ***

You’re saying …### Right? *** Say more. *** You make sense because ###. I guess you feel … ###. What do you feel? ***

More practical tantra for each chakra (vulnerability, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, spirituality) at www.schooloftantra.org

Get TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS amazon.com/Tantra-Chakras-Sasha-Alex-Lessin/dp/1548102830 & TEACH TANTRA amazon.com/Teach-Tantra-Teacher-Manual-Chakras/dp/1977642799

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