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ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT; SAY WHY YOU WANT THAT*  Chakra 3: Take What’s Yours

From TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS *

Read your partner the cues in CAPS aloud to your lover or your partner. Read anything enclosed in square brackets [like this] silently.

TELL ME ABOUT AN UPSET, FRUSTRATION, PROBLEM OR ISSUE YOU HAVE OR HAD WITH ME, USING THIS FORMULA. “WHEN YOU … , I FEEL … AND REACT BY … TO HIDE MY FEAR OF … BECAUSE WHAT I REALLY WANT IS …
[Example, “When you … mock me, I feel … hurt and angry and react by… withdrawing or attacking to hide my fear of… being humiliated because what I really want is … respect.”]

WHEN YOU… ***, [State upsetting behavior]

I FEEL … ***

AND REACT BY … ***

TO HIDE MY FEAR OF … ***

BECAUSE WHAT I REALLY WANT IS …” ***

IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE YOU’D LIKE TO SAY ABOUT THAT? *** 
[When partner’s said as much as you remember, read the next cue.]

WAIT. LET ME KNOW IF I’M GETTING YOU RIGHT. YOU’RE SAYING … ### 

[Finish the sentence, summarizing in your own words (paraphrasing) what partner said. If partner corrects you, paraphrase partner’s corrections and ask if you’ve got them right till partner says, “Correct.”]

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* TANTRA FOR ALL CHAKRAS (preview)

TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS guides you through experiences that help you: * Love each other more and better * Open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other * Share your diverse inner-voices * Learn what hurts and scares your Inner Kids * Discern when to lower your subself shields * Share vulnerability and connect with each other * Synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you * Refine how you relate * Heal each other’s hearts * Encourage female ejaculation * Master male ejaculatory control

TEACH TANTRA

TEACH LOVERS TO LOVE YOU BETTER, TEACH STUDENTS TO LOVE THEMSELVES AND EACH OTHER

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**TEACH TANTRA is a manual for you to experience advanced tantra, teach it to others and, optionally, attain certification as a tantra teacher. You learn to teach lovers and students how to:
* Master advanced tantra techniques
* Open all energy vortexes (chakras) to each other
* Refine relations
* Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control
* Find meaning and purpose in relationships and life
* Reprogram parent imprints that diminish sex and love
* Get satisfaction and sustain sex
* Mutually make more in sexualloving
* Delve dreams and pastlives
* Worship women and gratify guys

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